The Inner Game of Tennis – in this classic book, James Gallwey writes about how you always want to play a great opponent. You always want the opponent to play her best, so that you will be challenged. I love this idea. I always want to be the best I can be and the more talented the folks are around me, the better. How lucky am I to be wallowing in such talent. I also believe in positive sum gain… your success should lift me up too!!!